When traveling abroad, it is a common habit for us singles to look around for some eye candy. The notion of having a fling in a foreign country seems like an exciting experience, and it is worth the try. When trying to have sexual encounters abroad, you need to make sure that you find someone non-committed just like you are.
Barcelona, for example, is a great place to have your first sexual adventure. If you’ve never had sexual experiences abroad, here are a few tips on doing so.
Learn the Language
When we say learn the language, we don’t mean to learn the basic hellos and goodbyes. You are trying to have a hot foreign fling here, so what you’ll need to do is learn a few pick up lines from the language of the designated country. It can be something straightforward, such as ‘you are beautiful’ or ‘would you like to have a drink with me?’. Whoever you’d be going for will appreciate your effort of trying to communicate with them in their language, and this will likely sweep them off their feet more than if you use a pickup line in English. Besides, if you mess up, they’d still think you’re cute for trying.
Make Your Intentions Clear
To avoid any unwanted heartbreaks, you’d have to make your intentions clear from the start. Whether it is from actions or words during conversations, you need to state somehow that you’re only here for non-committed sexual relationships. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat them well; you should still treat them the way you’d treat a date. However, show signs that you’re just in it for fun. Phrases like ‘I am not looking for anything serious’ and dirty flirtings usually does the job.
This is the number one thing that you’ll need to keep in mind. You are, in one way or another, going to have sex with a stranger in a foreign country. You’ll need to do a few background checks to make sure whoever you’re going to have sex with has a clear background. You also need to inform a friend or a close relative of their information, at least a full name and what he or she looks like. There’s no such thing as being too cautious about your safety, as there have been cases of people sleeping with strangers and end up having their money stolen. You should also always perform safe sex, and have a condom ready in your wallet.